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Hi,

I'm a Litigant in Person so am compiling the bundle.

I'm working on the chronology and issues to be determined.

I understand how ...

03 Aug 25, by PMcGoohan
Latest 04 Aug 25 by WYSPECIAL
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04 Aug 25
My friends husband cheated on her using sex workers and porn sites. He has moved out, back with parents but obviously is paying for half bills as his name is st ...

31 Jul 25, by Molly@work
Latest 01 Aug 25 by WYSPECIAL
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01 Aug 25
We co-own two properties.
In our agreed financial consent order (court has approved it), it says that my ex will transfer her share of property A to me, and ...

01 Aug 25, by ThisIsGoingWell
Latest 01 Aug 25 by WYSPECIAL
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01 Aug 25
Hello all, hope someone can help?

In my financial order of my divorce it says child maintenance will be paid until last child is 18 or end of full time ...

29 Jun 20, by BikerRob
Latest 31 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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31 Jul 25
I was a Litigant in Person in a British Overseas Territory. I had to travel there. So I have travel expenses and the travel took, actually, more than 48 hours i ...

26 Jul 25, by NotaBene
Latest 29 Jul 25 by .Charles
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29 Jul 25
Hi everyone,I’m representing myself as a litigant in person in my financial remedy case. At my First Directions Appointment (FDA), the judge dir ...

19 Feb 25, by Beesknees1
Latest 26 Jul 25 by thewomble
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26 Jul 25
Hi all, first time on here and any advice would be massively appreciated.

Wife and I have have just submitted joint divorce application.

At th ...

23 Jul 25, by Gm78
Latest 25 Jul 25 by .Charles
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25 Jul 25
Hi, I'm preparing for my FDA hearing in September. My solicitor has emailed me with recommendations for a barrister. Do I need a barrister this early in the pro ...

17 Jul 25, by Maccie67
Latest 21 Jul 25 by .Charles
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21 Jul 25
Hello, hope you can help. I'm confused with question 10 on the d81 form (after implementation of consent order). His solicitor has entered a value in my ...

18 Jul 25, by Heidi99
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As per subject. We have been separated for 6 weeks and upon moving out my ex partner made all sorts of threats if I kept a key to the house.

I was fine ...

15 Jul 25, by dogby
Latest 18 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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18 Jul 25
My ex and I have our Consent Order approved by the court now.

We each have life assurance policies benefiting the other, which are included in the orde ...

15 Jul 25, by ThisIsGoingWell
Latest 17 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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17 Jul 25
D11
I am a foster carer and filling out the D11form

Do I have to put my foster allowance as income? ...

14 Jul 25, by Fisher123
Latest 15 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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15 Jul 25
Hello,

I desperate need of some advice.

I have one son and i have had a private agreement in place with his mother since birth. There has ne ...

12 Jul 25, by ShreddedWheat123
Latest 13 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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13 Jul 25
Hi, my ex partners solicitor is sending me a financial order to sign, however, this will be arriving after the final order can be made. We've agreed a settlemen ...

11 Jul 25, by Harrysmith
Latest 12 Jul 25 by Harrysmith
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12 Jul 25
Hello,
I am applicant in my divorce and it seems now unlikely that we will be able to negotiate a financial settlement before before the 12 months to apply ...

11 Jul 25, by NickyF79
Latest 12 Jul 25 by NickyF79
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12 Jul 25
Hi,
I need an urgent response if possible please.
FRH in January 2025, Court ordered sale of house at 260K to be put on market.
Full conduct of hous ...

09 Jul 25, by Kashi
Latest 10 Jul 25 by Kashi
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10 Jul 25
My wife and I separated last spring and we have finally got a consent order created, which is with the court pending approval right now.

This includes ...

08 Jul 25, by ThisIsGoingWell
Latest 10 Jul 25 by ThisIsGoingWell
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10 Jul 25
Hi

Could anyone advice whether chld maintenance payments should be included in section 2.19 for other income? I have declared this on section 1.13 bu ...

06 Jul 25, by htelfer
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Hi all
I the process of a buy out from house by ex. Problem is she's now alienating my kids against me , I don't trust she one bit. What would you do in t ...

04 Jul 25, by Ps4user
Latest 06 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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06 Jul 25
I left my married home 6 years through emotional cruelty on behalf of my husband.had to sell my half of the house to son to but flat of my own after6 months ren ...

04 Mar 25, by CarolMason
Latest 04 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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04 Jul 25
Does anyone know if Estate agents are the way to get valuations for property for divorce settlement purposes 🤔 ...

03 Jul 25, by Terri69
Latest 04 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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04 Jul 25
I am due to receive my pension with a lump sum and an annual payment . Am i allowed to buy a car with my lump sum ( financial hearing is not until september) ...

02 Jul 25, by Daisy 2309
Latest 03 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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03 Jul 25
Good afternoon

I have been separated from my wife since 2016. We have long since financially separated by at least 5 years without any issues.

02 Jul 25, by Ambient99
Latest 02 Jul 25 by rubytuesday
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02 Jul 25
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Hi All,
Divorce filed by partner in Jan 25, currently going through mediation but seems to have stalled due to lack of disclosure on her part after 3 mediat ...

26 Jun 25, by Web
Latest 02 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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02 Jul 25
Hi just starting the financial process and have asked husbands pension provider for CETV. They said that my solicitor has to request it. Im not having a sol ...

01 Jul 25, by Terri69
Latest 02 Jul 25 by WYSPECIAL
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02 Jul 25
Statement of Costs?

So I've filed for a Divorce.

Initially I sort legal advice from a soliitor but very quickly ran out of money. I'm a Liti ...

09 Jun 25, by PMcGoohan
Latest 30 Jun 25 by .Charles
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30 Jun 25
My view of how our 5 properties might be divide based on (legal) ownership is shattered when I learned about beneficial interest defining ownership share. I app ...

28 Jun 25, by nazmi
Latest 29 Jun 25 by nazmi
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29 Jun 25
Please could anyone advice what would be a fair settlement?

Children: Two children (girl age 4, boy age 2)

Nights with each parent: hoping for ...

27 May 25, by MeiMei123
Latest 27 Jun 25 by DestroyedInDivorce
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27 Jun 25
My divorce came through just over a year ago and I also moved house after selling marital home. Been married for 23 years. Nearly all of those were good. We act ...

11 May 25, by Oz
Latest 27 Jun 25 by DestroyedInDivorce
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27 Jun 25
Hey,What can i expect and what would be considered fair?

M 44, £100k PA, Pension 100k ish
W 44, £30k PA, Pension 20k ish
Married 15 years
...

28 Jan 25, by anon_help
Latest 26 Jun 25 by DestroyedInDivorce
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26 Jun 25
Sorry for the essay…

Soon to be ex-wife's solicitor has suggested she applies for a Mesher Order. She's 35, I'm 38, our child is 3.

I was as ...

25 Jun 25, by Seventeen Going Under
Latest 25 Jun 25 by WYSPECIAL
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25 Jun 25
While we go through divorce proceedings, my wife and 16 yr old daughter continue to live at the former marital home whilst I stay at my parents. CSA have just g ...

24 Jun 25, by Oscar1974
Latest 25 Jun 25 by WYSPECIAL
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25 Jun 25
Hello, and thank you in advance of any assistance; I thought I knew the process but seems I don't know exact sequence.

1. ~20 weeks ago I started a no ...

20 Jun 25, by indelible
Latest 24 Jun 25 by indelible
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24 Jun 25
I am acting as an LIP and have provided evidence of my mortgage capacity to the court and my STBXs solicitor (as required in the court order). My STBXs solicito ...

25 Mar 22, by singlemumLIP
Latest 22 Jun 25 by Hertsmum
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22 Jun 25
I have commenced new job and started a new pension after the separation. Can my ex (now divorced) claim share of that new pension? ...

17 Jun 25, by dentheman
Latest 17 Jun 25 by WYSPECIAL
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17 Jun 25
My stbx is retiring two months after fda hearing. He claims he's in bad health. He has a wealth of expensive tools. Are these counted as an asset which can be s ...

16 Jun 25, by Tania kearton
Latest 17 Jun 25 by WYSPECIAL
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17 Jun 25
Hi,I’m the sole owner of the property we lived in throughout our relationship. My ex-wife moved in with me in early 2019, we married in March 2024, and sepa ...

03 Jun 25, by James.B
Latest 07 Jun 25 by WYSPECIAL
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07 Jun 25
interesting to know how much the court takes into consideration depression, as this divorce is taking a lot out of me, it has been going on for 14 months and no ...

18 Jun 19, by dezpemberton
Latest 05 Jun 25 by wexalor131
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05 Jun 25
have just received a court date for 3 weeks time to finalise the divorce.
My STBX applied first last year and I agreed.The 20 week mark passed and we were ...

27 May 25, by Daisy 2309
Latest 05 Jun 25 by Daisy 2309
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05 Jun 25

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