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Children moving hundreds or miles away

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24 Mar 15 #458548 by TurboB
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If this situation manifests, how can the NRP stop this from happening?

Is there a court process or form to log your objection, and can this be done as a preventative step or after the kids have moved?

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24 Mar 15 #458549 by rubytuesday
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You could try for a Prohibited Steps Order to prevent her from moving the children away. You would need to apply before she moves, using a C100 form.

Is this a real possibility for your children? Is the proposed area your ex''s home town? What connections does she have with the area?

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24 Mar 15 #458551 by TurboB
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Thanks

The kids have mentioned ''changing school''.

Also, as the financials haven''t been settled, the ex will probably bank on getting a larger ''down south'' slice then relocate back home where its hell of a lot cheaper to buy etc.

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24 Mar 15 #458556 by rubytuesday
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So it''s not a firm proposal? I think you may need to ask your ex about the changing school thing so that you can clear things up. It might be that she intends to move locally.

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24 Mar 15 #458558 by LittleMrMike
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Unusually for me, I will offer an opinion on a matter connected with children.

I had no children but I think I know how I''d feel if their mother removed them a considerable distance, making contact more difficult and more expensive.

As rubytuesday has said, you could apply for the Prohibited Steps order, but can I ask you whether you think that there is a valid reason for her wanting to move ? Has she a new job ? Does she have any family there ? Has she formed a new relationship ? Does the child need to go to a particular school that could meet her needs ? I think you need to try and be objective here. The Court''s first consideration is always the interests of the child.

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24 Mar 15 #458562 by rubytuesday
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I think that first, TurboB needs to establish what the facts are - is she moving "hundreds of miles away", or just moving locally, or just considering changing the children''s schools (in which TurboB should be involved with).

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24 Mar 15 #458564 by TurboB
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The trouble is its very difficult to get a straight answer to a straight question. The kids made reference to joining a school that their cousin attends which happens to be 200+miles away back where the RP grew up and has family.

Hence i''m thinking of taking the proactive step of trying to block this before it happens.

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