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27 Apr 15 #460479 by Daisy39
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Am typing through tears as im so angry and upset.
After years on emotional abuse divorce refusal to mediate etc lots of other posts he has now done the one last thing to seriously push me over the edge

Hes reported me to social services stating im mentally unstable .

If steam could come out of my ears it would .
I have given my three children everything. I could tell by the way case worker spoke hed reeled her in hook line and sinker. I also know how the system works and how it will damage my carer as well.

Am absolutely devastated that he would stoop too this level.

currently looking for rented accomadation as no amount of money is worth the stress .

Im shure the court will award me something but hell bock the process foer as long as humanly possible so that leaves with me with nothing im just going to walk away with my kids and try to build a new life.

Daisy

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27 Apr 15 #460488 by mumof 3
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oh daisy hugs to you

i am in much the same situation and my stbx plays mind games all the time.
the other night he told me i was mental and needed to get some tablets due to my age.:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

i too dont understand why he has to be so horrible to me all the time and i know it is hard but try to rise above it.
he has my two younger children abusing me now because he cant get to me himself.

social services will see through his games .i am sure they have seen all this before.
stay strong and dont let him beat you.
hugs to you

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27 Apr 15 #460495 by itsbeenalongtime
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BIG HUGS. Your children will always have you and if you focus on the important things you will always have them. I dont have an issue with the children as they are adults now but my stbx told me I was mentally ill and needed help. I think they just use anything they can to upset things. Stay strong and concentrate on whats important, your children and you staying strong for them. Big hugs again.

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