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Ex backtracked on Consent Order now applying for Final Order
10 Oct 23 #521911
by Learntofly83
Topic started by Learntofly83
Hi,
Could anyone advise.
I initiated divorce against my ex as she had left me and didn’t want to reconcile (post April 22).
My Conditional order said I could apply for the final order in July 23, we had reached a verbal agreement on finances, then she started ignoring my comms and blocked me on all ways of contacting her.
Now it’s Oct 23 and she has applied AS THE RESPONDENT for the final order as she is entitled to, however no Consent Order has been reached around finances due to her agreeing we would draft one but then blocking me.
my understanding is that it complicates settling finances in the future massively if they have not been settled before the final order.
She has only just applied online for the final order, is there a way I can pause these proceedings further to get our finances sorted?
Would I be correct in looking into sending a D11 form to have her application paused.
This has caused a lot of stress and I feel so betrayed that my good nature has been played
Thanks
Could anyone advise.
I initiated divorce against my ex as she had left me and didn’t want to reconcile (post April 22).
My Conditional order said I could apply for the final order in July 23, we had reached a verbal agreement on finances, then she started ignoring my comms and blocked me on all ways of contacting her.
Now it’s Oct 23 and she has applied AS THE RESPONDENT for the final order as she is entitled to, however no Consent Order has been reached around finances due to her agreeing we would draft one but then blocking me.
my understanding is that it complicates settling finances in the future massively if they have not been settled before the final order.
She has only just applied online for the final order, is there a way I can pause these proceedings further to get our finances sorted?
Would I be correct in looking into sending a D11 form to have her application paused.
This has caused a lot of stress and I feel so betrayed that my good nature has been played
Thanks
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