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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

 

Financial 30.2k topics

Discuss financial aspects of divorce including ancillary relief, spousal maintenance, child support, property transfer and pension sharing.
Category

Ancillary Relief 5721 topics

Discuss all aspects of Ancillary Relief: when and how to apply, and the various stages of the court process from disclosure through to a final hearing.
Re: Short Marriage of Few Weeks
by Curious7
11 Sep 25

Divorce calculator 1302 topics

Discuss the Wikivorce divorce calculator. What did you think of the estimate it gave? How do you interpret the output? How accurate is the calculator?
Discuss the impact of divorce on property and mortgages. How will the house be divided? Does your ex have to keep up with the mortgage payments?
Re: Divorced but still have joint ...
by WYSPECIAL
05 Sep 25

Maintenance 3329 topics

Discuss child and spousal maintenance. How much child support are you entitled to? What determines whether you will receive/pay spousal maintenance?
Re: Spousal Maintenance
by DestroyedInDivorce
03 Jun 25

Pensions 2382 topics

Discuss divorce related pension issues. Is the CETV valuation valid for final salary schemes? How much is a pension worth when you offset it against the house?
Re: Pension advice in divorce
by WYSPECIAL
05 Aug 25

Debt and Bankruptcy 837 topics

Discuss debt and bankruptcy in divorce. How does it affect the Ancillary Relief settlement if me or my ex go bankrupt or enter an IVA during divorce?

Benefits 456 topics

Discussion on state benefits during and after divorce. What benefits am I entitled to? Will my benefits be affected by the maintenance I receive?
Re: High Income Child Benefit Tax ...
by PortisheadDad
12 May 25

Legal Aid 426 topics

Discuss Legal Aid. Will you qualify? How do you claim? When and how do you pay the money back?
Re: When does it stop
by Djsmith
03 Oct 24
Subject Replies / Latest
property division on divorce
My view of how our 5 properties might be divide based on (legal) ownership is shattered when I learned about beneficial interest defining ownership share. I app ...
28 Jun 25, by nazmi
Latest 29 Jun 25 by nazmi
Replies:2
:211
Latest by nazmi
29 Jun 25
Equal Split
Hey,What can i expect and what would be considered fair?

M 44, £100k PA, Pension 100k ish
W 44, £30k PA, Pension 20k ish
Married 15 years
...
28 Jan 25, by anon_help
Latest 26 Jun 25 by DestroyedInDivorce
Replies:7
:605
Latest by DestroyedInDivorce
26 Jun 25
pension sharing
I have commenced new job and started a new pension after the separation. Can my ex (now divorced) claim share of that new pension? ...
17 Jun 25, by dentheman
Latest 17 Jun 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:193
Latest by WYSPECIAL
17 Jun 25
Expensive tools
My stbx is retiring two months after fda hearing. He claims he's in bad health. He has a wealth of expensive tools. Are these counted as an asset which can be s ...
16 Jun 25, by Tania kearton
Latest 17 Jun 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:175
Latest by WYSPECIAL
17 Jun 25
Joint Bank account
Hi Guys, currently seperated fom my partner and in the process of applying for a divorce and sorting out our finances. My partner has decided that she wants to ...
19 May 25, by paul0000
Latest 03 Jun 25 by DestroyedInDivorce
Replies:4
:193
Latest by DestroyedInDivorce
03 Jun 25
SDLT transferring a property?!
My wife and I had - I thought - got to the end of our divorce journey. We've both signed a financial consent order which agrees who gets what, primarily includi ...
27 May 25, by ThisIsGoingWell
Replies:0
:352

Mediation
Hello, you can see my history on previous posts. At the end of April we received the sealed order and we have now been advised that the final hearing has been s ...
20 May 25, by EnJayAitch
Latest 21 May 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:150
Latest by WYSPECIAL
21 May 25
Enforcement order
Hello everyone,
I need to apply for an enforcement order as my ex has not paid Global Maintenance for the past 15 months. Is Form D11 the correct for ...
19 May 25, by Mumin
Replies:0
:103

Form A
Hi

Just completing Form A and after a steer on whether i should select the option 'to apply to the court' or the option to 'proceed with the applicat ...
13 May 25, by htelfer
Latest 19 May 25 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:220
Latest by rubytuesday
19 May 25
mortgage and bills
Hi, hope someone can shed some light on this matter. Married 20 years, wife applied for divorce in January and currently going through financial mediation. I am ...
13 May 25, by Web
Latest 15 May 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:165
Latest by WYSPECIAL
15 May 25
Assets hidden
Hello
I am at the mediation stage of a divorce, we have exchanged financial discolsures but I have evidence my wife has at least 2 active bank accounts whic ...
14 May 25, by KAspley
Latest 14 May 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:155
Latest by WYSPECIAL
14 May 25
Spousal Maintenance application to have Term Extended
Ex wife has applied to court to have spousal maintenance extended until youngest is 25 on the grounds that she has run up debt since Final Order was made. Young ...
01 Sep 24, by Alex0702
Latest 14 May 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:9
:882
Latest by WYSPECIAL
14 May 25
Conveyancing Solicitors
Financial remedy order stated both parties to have conduct of sale of jointly owned family home. Parties agreed which conveyance solicitor to use and provided r ...
13 May 25, by dd1232
Replies:0
:306

Divorce/Pension
If there is a clean break financial remedy order in place would that prevent an ex-spouse/partner from being their pension beneficiary (who was unwittingly name ...
11 May 25, by dd1232
Latest 12 May 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:158
Latest by WYSPECIAL
12 May 25
Form E Submission
Good morning,
I am in the process of getting ready to post my completed Form E, together will all the documents requested. My question is how do I send all ...
27 Apr 25, by Ainres
Latest 05 May 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:3
:169
Latest by WYSPECIAL
05 May 25
Seeking clarity on issues at First Appointment
I am a respondent and am self-representing. I have a First Appointment hearing coming up. We have exchanged questionnaires. The applicant's solicitor failed to ...
03 May 25, by Itela
Replies:0
:312

Is the final financial hearing the final hearing
As per the subject. We had an FDR a month ago and couldn't agree a deal. The court listing in August is described as the final financial hearing . Im
hoping ...
30 Apr 25, by Barney2912
Replies:0
:340

Help and Guidance Needed
Hi,

Nearly 2 years ago I split from my wife and we are currently going through proposals for settlement with court looming in 2 months if we cant set ...
28 Apr 25, by Fatherof2Co
Latest 30 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:4
:161
Latest by WYSPECIAL
30 Apr 25
Settlement Advice please
Hi everyone,
Looks like I'm going to be going through a divorce. I'd love some help on where to set my expectations as I'm pretty green to this all. My wife ...
25 Apr 25, by The Green Triangle
Latest 29 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:5
:238
Latest by WYSPECIAL
29 Apr 25
Complex D81 - help
My ex and I have agreed to me keeping the house (for now) with a partial equity release of 20% to him on divorce finalisation (£100k) and 25% in 6 years when y ...
28 Apr 25, by JanetJJ245
Latest 29 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:154
Latest by WYSPECIAL
29 Apr 25
Form E Section 3
Good evening, I am in the process of completing my Financial requirements in Form E but the box is not big enough to list everything. Is it acceptable to create ...
25 Apr 25, by Ainres
Latest 26 Apr 25 by Ainres
Replies:2
:174
Latest by Ainres
26 Apr 25
Capital Gains Tax on house sale
We are currently selling the FMH. I moved out in 2019. Bought house in 2011 for £510k, significantly remodelled and extended it. Now being sold for £1.052m. T ...
23 Apr 25, by 18822005
Latest 26 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:211
Latest by WYSPECIAL
26 Apr 25
Appeal a mutually agreed settlement
Hi Everyone,

I have a friend who signed an agreement in the latter half of 2024. He did not consult with a solicitor, but instead allowed his wife to ...
23 Apr 25, by johnh123
Latest 26 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:197
Latest by WYSPECIAL
26 Apr 25
Divorce Papers Respondant
My husband has applied for divorce I have received the form to fill out and send back as the respondent. I am unsure about question 7 Do you intend to ask the ...
15 Apr 25, by Cat543
Latest 17 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:188
Latest by WYSPECIAL
17 Apr 25
Equity release from a solicitor
Hi can anyone help after three months since a house was sold the money has still not been released from the solicitor holding it this is because my ex partner r ...
20 Dec 24, by PeeledBanana
Latest 10 Apr 25 by PeeledBanana
Replies:13
:557
Latest by PeeledBanana
10 Apr 25
Witness statement missing statement of truth
Hello Wikivorcers,

I am the Applicant in a financial order case, and the judge has ordered Narrative/witness Statements regarding a marital asset, wh ...
09 Apr 25, by Helpmenot
Replies:0
:325

CMS order amending an existing and long standing Consent Order?
Hi, I am somewhat confused and would appreciate the collective pearls of wisdom please. The divorce was completed and there was a consent order established in 2 ...
05 Apr 25, by Hepialid1106
Latest 08 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:184
Latest by WYSPECIAL
08 Apr 25
Please help/advice
Hi everyone.

I would be very appreciative of any advice, views or thoughts on my situation and whether it would be considered fair and meet the criteri ...
05 Apr 25, by Amicable couple
Latest 07 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:175
Latest by WYSPECIAL
07 Apr 25
Can a pension shared % be offset with salary
I have a larger pension than my ex, (mine is 300k and his is 60k) while I am aware that I will need to provide a pension share. My ex has a higher salary of a ...
06 Apr 25, by Clare1408
Latest 07 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:157
Latest by WYSPECIAL
07 Apr 25
Deed of assignment
Hi - my ex and I were ordered by the court order to split a life insurance. Insurance company does not have a form for this so need a deed of assignment written ...
03 Apr 25, by easyrider
Latest 05 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:155
Latest by WYSPECIAL
05 Apr 25
D81
Ive agreed a sum.with the ex and lawyer has drafted the d81.
however I need to add a date for when I will pay the amount and also a date for me to take ov ...
01 Apr 25, by Fluorine79
Latest 02 Apr 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:178
Latest by WYSPECIAL
02 Apr 25
Consent Order
We are close to finalising the consent order, we have agreed settlement terms and there are no further assets to be divided

As an aside, my ex husban ...
31 Mar 25, by Vic1977
Latest 31 Mar 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:164
Latest by WYSPECIAL
31 Mar 25
FDR
Is it advisable to have counsel for an FDR my husband had one for initial and I cannot see the justification for the cost, my solicitor attended with me. I can ...
26 Mar 25, by Noidea24
Latest 27 Mar 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:203
Latest by WYSPECIAL
27 Mar 25
Consent order
So my husband and I have our divorce in process, we were married for 14 years, have 2 children aged 8 and 12. We would like to do a consent order but don't have ...
25 Mar 25, by jemmawright165@yahoo.com
Latest 26 Mar 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:238
Latest by WYSPECIAL
26 Mar 25
Consent order
So my husband and I have our divorce in process, we were married for 14 years, have 2 children aged 8 and 12. We would like to do a consent order but don't have ...
25 Mar 25, by jemmawright165@yahoo.com
Replies:0
:126

Court Fees Set To Increase Next Month
Divorce, civil partnership dissolution or nullity proceedings: to increase from £593 to £612

Financial Remedy Proceedings (contested finances ...
24 Mar 25, by rubytuesday
Replies:0
:394

Length of marriage/clean break
Hi all. Does anyone have any idea/experience on what is classed as a short marriage. I’ve heard that this can differ depending on the judge.
We cohabite ...
22 Mar 25, by InTheNightSky
Latest 22 Mar 25 by InTheNightSky
Replies:1
:145
Latest by InTheNightSky
22 Mar 25
When is my last maintenance payment
Hello everyone, I guess this is my last post after being on here 18 years, ( nearly).
I need some proper advice please,

My child is 18 next mon ...
16 Mar 25, by chatsworth08
Latest 21 Mar 25 by chatsworth08
Replies:7
:538
Latest by chatsworth08
21 Mar 25
Likely financial outcome
Im hoping to get some advice, guidance, opinions on what a likely outcome is based on my circumstances below.

Currently going through a separation. I ...
19 Mar 25, by Wanderers88
Latest 20 Mar 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:186
Latest by WYSPECIAL
20 Mar 25
Financial separation
My husband and I have sold our home and split the proceeds. I have purchased a home and he's considering using his proceeds to buy abroad. We are in agreeme ...
19 Mar 25, by KirstenK
Latest 19 Mar 25 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:152
Latest by WYSPECIAL
19 Mar 25

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