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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

 

Financial 30.2k topics

Discuss financial aspects of divorce including ancillary relief, spousal maintenance, child support, property transfer and pension sharing.
Category

Ancillary Relief 5721 topics

Discuss all aspects of Ancillary Relief: when and how to apply, and the various stages of the court process from disclosure through to a final hearing.
Re: Short Marriage of Few Weeks
by Curious7
11 Sep 25

Divorce calculator 1302 topics

Discuss the Wikivorce divorce calculator. What did you think of the estimate it gave? How do you interpret the output? How accurate is the calculator?
Discuss the impact of divorce on property and mortgages. How will the house be divided? Does your ex have to keep up with the mortgage payments?
Re: Divorced but still have joint ...
by WYSPECIAL
05 Sep 25

Maintenance 3329 topics

Discuss child and spousal maintenance. How much child support are you entitled to? What determines whether you will receive/pay spousal maintenance?
Re: Spousal Maintenance
by DestroyedInDivorce
03 Jun 25

Pensions 2382 topics

Discuss divorce related pension issues. Is the CETV valuation valid for final salary schemes? How much is a pension worth when you offset it against the house?
Re: Pension advice in divorce
by WYSPECIAL
05 Aug 25

Debt and Bankruptcy 837 topics

Discuss debt and bankruptcy in divorce. How does it affect the Ancillary Relief settlement if me or my ex go bankrupt or enter an IVA during divorce?

Benefits 456 topics

Discussion on state benefits during and after divorce. What benefits am I entitled to? Will my benefits be affected by the maintenance I receive?
Re: High Income Child Benefit Tax ...
by PortisheadDad
12 May 25

Legal Aid 426 topics

Discuss Legal Aid. Will you qualify? How do you claim? When and how do you pay the money back?
Re: When does it stop
by Djsmith
03 Oct 24
Subject Replies / Latest
Bank Statement Disclosure
I have recently begun mediation and I have been asked to provide bank statements for the past 12 months. Although I'm generally fine with this, there are a smal ...
20 Oct 23, by TrialRun
Replies:0
:294

d81 help or examples
does any one have an example simple d81 to share based on a short marriage no child...order to cut all ties

if both in agreement to leave even with une ...
14 Oct 23, by Stee4n
Latest 17 Oct 23 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:276
Latest by rubytuesday
17 Oct 23
privacy in divorce
I am trying to reach a financial settlement with my wife without involving expensive lawyers until the end (i.e. when we have a settlement agreed mutually betwe ...
30 Sep 23, by laconic
Latest 30 Sep 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:280
Latest by hadenoughnow
30 Sep 23
Company Valuation
Hi,

to date in our divorce we have not valued my wifes companies, she says they are worth nothing, but has just submitted her micro accounts which I ha ...
20 Sep 23, by rrobby12
Latest 20 Sep 23 by Rickoshea
Replies:2
:351
Latest by Rickoshea
20 Sep 23
Company Valuation
Hi,

to date in our divorce we have not valued my wifes companies, she says they are worth nothing, but has just submitted her micro accounts which I ha ...
20 Sep 23, by rrobby12
Replies:0
:277

Short marriage, no children.. Need Help
Hey all, I’ll let you know the situation briefly: Marriage ended after 19 months - started the divorce application. Cohabitated around 17 months. No child ...
14 Sep 23, by Timg258
Latest 16 Sep 23 by Timg258
Replies:4
:408
Latest by Timg258
16 Sep 23
Clean break divorce - advice please ?
I'm in the final stages of the divorce process - waiting to apply for a final order on the 11th October.

My husband and I have decided to split the p ...
12 Sep 23, by Whatapickle
Replies:0
:2

Questionnaire - Form E
Hi there,
Ex has sent her Form E. There are are missing payslips, missing statements between certain periods, calculations (outgoing) are calculated incor ...
24 Aug 23, by Mann9898
Latest 27 Aug 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:1433
Latest by hadenoughnow
27 Aug 23
post separation valuations
Hi
I'm a LIP trying to get through settling finances with an ex who's non responsive. Ex's solicitor advises they have no instruction to respond to me. ...
25 Aug 23, by sensationoffumbling
Latest 26 Aug 23 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:330
Latest by WYSPECIAL
26 Aug 23
Final Hearing
FH was expected to just to review/bless consent order, but at last minute, Respondent did not submit d81 as part of long-standing strategy to delay proceedings, ...
23 Aug 23, by 19marmero47
Latest 23 Aug 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:297
Latest by hadenoughnow
23 Aug 23
Difficulty with Form E Exchange
Hi everyone. I have submitted my Form E bundle to the court - the deadline is this coming Monday, but my ex has not yet done this
I have a non-molestation o ...
16 Aug 23, by Jibjab
Latest 19 Aug 23 by TrialRun
Replies:1
:289
Latest by TrialRun
19 Aug 23
Bundle for Final Hearing
URGENT - My ex's solicitor has put together the bundle for our final hearing. In my S25 statement he has inserted typed responses to my statements. He is planni ...
15 Aug 23, by JUMARTAY
Latest 15 Aug 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:343
Latest by hadenoughnow
15 Aug 23
Bundle for Final Hearing
URGENT - My ex's solicitor has put together the bundle for our final hearing. In my S25 statement he has inserted typed responses to my statements. He is plan ...
15 Aug 23, by JUMARTAY
Replies:0
:243

1st Hearing ineffective
Hi there,
Yesterday was first hearing in financial settlement, ex had not complied with the court order in terms of Form E exchange in July, and ES1/ES2 a ...
08 Aug 23, by Mann9898
Latest 09 Aug 23 by .Charles
Replies:1
:314
Latest by .Charles
09 Aug 23
09 Jul 23, by Getmeoutofthisnightmare
Latest 07 Aug 23 by Getmeoutofthisnightmare
Replies:5
:688
Latest by Getmeoutofthisnightmare
07 Aug 23
No Ex at Final Hearing. Please help
Hi
This is where I am currently at, ex has refused to provide Form E and documents to myself or court. I have submitted mine to court. Ex would not respon ...
28 Jul 23, by Diadora8t6
Latest 30 Jul 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:555
Latest by hadenoughnow
30 Jul 23
Global Maintenance - help me!
Hello all

So i'm new on here but still suffering the blow of a GMO, divorced over 7 years now, in short there was only about £1.2m in the pot of which ...
18 Jul 23, by Captain Jack
Latest 24 Jul 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:3
:283
Latest by hadenoughnow
24 Jul 23
Fixed Deposits - which value to use?
Dear all

Marital pot has significant fixed deposits paying significant rolled up interest (much higher rate than the UK as they are overseas). Do you t ...
12 Jul 23, by bettydidabooboo
Latest 13 Jul 23 by WYSPECIAL
Replies:1
:294
Latest by WYSPECIAL
13 Jul 23
Responding to D11 application
I am being taken to court next week for a hearing regarding a D11 application by my ex-wife, further to the final hearing at our financial divorce dispute end o ...
13 Jul 23, by cassfowler
Replies:0
:992

Implications of accepting Final Order before applying for Consent / Clean Break
TL;Dr; Joint application. England. My STBX applied for a final order today before sorting out the Consent Order. Is it possible to get a financial clean break o ...
04 Jul 23, by DivorceFAQs
Latest 08 Jul 23 by DivorceFAQs
Replies:2
:2139
Latest by DivorceFAQs
08 Jul 23
I live in the UK, my STBXW in France
Hi, my wife asked for a divorce earlier this year while we were both living in France. I reluctantly agreed (she was unfaithful to me) to move back to the UK wh ...
22 Jun 23, by mjb8126
Latest 26 Jun 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:325
Latest by hadenoughnow
26 Jun 23
Form E
Hello,
I need some advice please. Thank you.
We have exchanged Form E last month based on my old job/income, through the court order which was first ...
24 Jun 23, by Fred_John_Freeman
Latest 25 Jun 23 by Brookes
Replies:2
:427
Latest by Brookes
25 Jun 23
Consent Order waiting time approval by Judge
Hi all,

I almost nearing the end of my divorce. Me and my ex husband signed
Latest 19 Jun 23 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:964
Latest by rubytuesday
19 Jun 23
Is Cash in Hand Counted as Salary
I earn a modest salary and my partner is officially on about 25% of my salary. However, she earns a further £18,000 a year in cash by cleaning, selling on eBay ...
16 Jun 23, by ees3dc
Latest 18 Jun 23 by ees3dc
Replies:4
:520
Latest by ees3dc
18 Jun 23
Advice Please
Met June 2008
Husband was in rented accommodation.
Husband moves into wifes property the end of 2008. (Now B2L No 2)
Wife had her name on the deeds ...
29 May 23, by Zero
Latest 07 Jun 23 by Zero
Replies:4
:400
Latest by Zero
07 Jun 23
Decree Absolute but ex wants money
Afternoon All

Don't know if mine is unusual but would love to get advice from the knowledge base on here.......

Sold marital home 18 months ...
01 Jun 23, by CheshireMan
Latest 05 Jun 23 by CheshireMan
Replies:6
:344
Latest by CheshireMan
05 Jun 23
No exchange of Form E, now what?
I submitted my Form E to the court on the deadline, emailed ex to agree a date to exchange. I proposed a date 3 weeks from the date of my email because In all l ...
03 Jun 23, by Diadora8t6
Latest 05 Jun 23 by RBAN1
Replies:3
:1549
Latest by RBAN1
05 Jun 23
Dividends vs Directors Loan?
Hi all,

my ex partner appears to be trying to reposition the dividends she has paid herself for a number of years as a directors loan instead (she is t ...
09 May 23, by rrobby12
Latest 10 May 23 by Rickoshea
Replies:1
:518
Latest by Rickoshea
10 May 23
SJE Business Valuation
Hi All,

I hope someone can give me some advice.

I am getting a divorce and have a minority shareholding in two Businesses. A SJE has been in ...
09 May 23, by johnh123
Replies:0
:308

Do I need representation?
Hi allI have just received a date for the first hearing for financial settlement. My solicitor needs me to pay £3000 within the next 3 months. I asked for clar ...
28 Apr 23, by Diadora8t6
Latest 07 May 23 by Diadora8t6
Replies:4
:364
Latest by Diadora8t6
07 May 23
Ex in Dubai - Financial settlement
Hi all ,

my ex moved to Dubai in 2016 .

I now want to do the financial settlement but I have no idea where he works or lives .

my sol ...
28 Apr 23, by Katieturbo
Latest 04 May 23 by Katieturbo
Replies:10
:1223
Latest by Katieturbo
04 May 23
Do need mediation
I wanted to find out do I need to have mediation before submitting the Form A1 , even though my wife will clearly not attend on the grounds that her solicitor ...
19 Apr 23, by Brazil70
Latest 01 May 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:253
Latest by hadenoughnow
01 May 23
Help - post First Hearing (Fin Settlement)
Sorry to be obtuse.....my friend (husband in case) had first hearing in front of judge ref reaching a FS with his exwife. I suggested he try the calculator on t ...
29 Apr 23, by Mnh123
Latest 01 May 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:326
Latest by hadenoughnow
01 May 23
24 Apr 23, by Divorce2023
Latest 26 Apr 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:432
Latest by hadenoughnow
26 Apr 23
Consent order approved. What would happen …..,,,
Hi

myself & my ex have a consent order stating family home to be sold & receive a 50/50 share of sale price after mortgage deducted.

W ...
26 Apr 23, by Ceejayjay1
Latest 26 Apr 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:332
Latest by hadenoughnow
26 Apr 23
Financial settlement
Over four weeks ago ,my solicitor has written to my wife solicitors with a financial settlement offer. I have since part company with my solicitor and o hav w ...
19 Apr 23, by Brazil70
Latest 20 Apr 23 by hadenoughnow
Replies:1
:407
Latest by hadenoughnow
20 Apr 23
Why this form
My wife solicitors have suggested to settle our finances that , we complete a D18 form rather than a form E. Why might they suggest that form? We have no prop ...
20 Apr 23, by Brazil70
Latest 20 Apr 23 by .Charles
Replies:1
:457
Latest by .Charles
20 Apr 23
Do need mediation
I wanted to find out do I need to have mediation before submitting the Form A1 , even though my wife will clearly not attend on the grounds that her solicitor f ...
19 Apr 23, by Brazil70
Latest 19 Apr 23 by rubytuesday
Replies:1
:316
Latest by rubytuesday
19 Apr 23
Separated, divorcing but still sharingthe same home. Income & Expenses ?
Commenced divorce proceedings in late 2021 so assume this is the effective date of separation ?

However, we've needed to live in the same home since t ...
07 Apr 23, by thetideishigh
Latest 11 Apr 23 by thetideishigh
Replies:4
:573
Latest by thetideishigh
11 Apr 23
Imminent FDR
*Copied from Court Forum, as I’m not sure which forum is more appropriate*

Hello all, i’m new here and would appreciate any help. You all seem very ...
04 Apr 23, by Patiently_Seething
Latest 07 Apr 23 by Patiently_Seething
Replies:4
:337
Latest by Patiently_Seething
07 Apr 23

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