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TurboB
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03 Sep 15 #466285 by TurboB

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I get letters from my ex solicitor regarding settlememnt of finances as well as a whole host of matters which are unrelated.

I feel compelled to reply, but should I as it just seems to be a money spinner for them and I would rather have the conversation directly with ex.

Thoughts?

.Charles
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03 Sep 15 #466286 by .Charles

Reply from .Charles

If you ex wanted to communicate directly with you he would not have appointed a solicitor.

There is no harm in asking your ex if there is scope to discuss the matter and same him costs but if he says "speak to my solicitor" then you must respect that decision.

As for being a money spinner - the solicitor is out to make a profit like any business. It is your ex''s decision to use a solicitor, the solicitor is merely acting upon instructions.

Charles

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