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	Mediation 531 topics Discuss the role of mediation in divorce. Does it work? How much does it cost? What happens if my ex pulls out? Where can I find a mediator?	Mediation for finances by Alan1975 27 Aug 25
	Collaborative Law 56 topics Discussion on Collaborative Law, a process where solicitors of each party agree to reach a settlement through negotiation instead of going to court.	Now what..........???? by 5masheddreams 17 Mar 17
	DIY Divorce 832 topics Discussion on DIY divorce services as an alternative to using a solicitor. How much does it cost? How long does it take? What if we can't agree?	Mesher Order by Kenate 06 Aug 25

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