Hi,
I was divorced in 2010, court order finally agreed in Oct-2011.
This committed me to paying £1000 a month in
child maintenance (no spousal maintenance) until the usual CSA termination dates. It did include the rider that this would continue "while he can afford it".
It also committed me to a true-up each April, which usually resulted in me paying an extra £2-3k or thereabouts (at the time, i ran a limited company).
I adhered to that court order through 2011 and most of 2012. However, at the end of 2012, i took a permanent job and closed my business. I continued to pay the same amount of maintenance until January 2013, when i agreed with my ex wife that i would reduce what i paid to a small sum of £850, which was in line with CSA net income rates. Unfortunately, as things were a little happier back then, this was agreed verbally.
As a consequence, in 2013, i paid what the CSA would have expected me to pay, but £1329 less than the court order said.
Neither my ex wife nor I thought to get the court order changed, as we both understood it was only in force for 12 months (i now understand that it was in force for 12 months if a CSA order came into force after that period, otherwise it would continue).
In 2014, i paid the net income CSA rate until April, when the gross income scheme came in. I contacted my ex wife and voluntary increased the payment to £1024. In 2014, as in 2013, i also paid her the relevant share of my annual bonus.
In October 2014, my son went to University, so again, i reduced the payment in line with what the CSA rules state and gave him the difference.
This means that i am now paying £830 per month.
Over Christmas, she rang me and told me that she thinks i am concealing income, as my new wife has a new car (she does - -4 years old, £4k, bought using the rest of my bonus money and my wife''s own savings). She says she intends going to the Court to have the
Consent Order set aside as i have not adhered to it. Apparently, i owe her "thousands" and she wants the court to look at the asset split again (she got 70%, i got 30% - which i used to pay down marital debts).
I''ve been through every payment i''ve ever made to her and although i am undoubtedly in breach of the court order, the actual amount that i haven''t paid is only around £900 in total - and some of this can be explained by the fact that my eldest son went to University. When CSA measures are taken into account, i''ve actually paid a little more than i should.
Do i need to be concerned about the Court setting aside the order, or am i just going to get a slap on the wrist for a technical breach? It was made at a time when i earned about 20% more than i do now.
I''ve offered her the £900, but she says that i am just doing that because i don''t want the court burrowing into my financial affairs.
I get a salary. She gets copy payslips. I have one bank account. There is nothing to hide.
Jon.