My
Consent Order is now coming up to a year old and I'm looking for some advice and thoughts on a variation as things are really badly skewed.
I agreed in my co to pay 20% of nett from p60 minus 1/7th to take into account children with me approx 80 days per year.
This year that means my ex gets £921 per month.
Since the CO was agreed my circumstances have changed, I now have a new partner and we live together, she has 2 children and I now have my children over 104 days per year.
if I run the numbers through the CSA calc my maint requirement drops to £550 per month.
So now Im looking at things critically, my ex has a 4 bed house freehold as result of the
Clean Break we made, she moved her boyfriend in 3 months after the CO was sealed so she is sitting pretty with no mortgage, her own income, £11k per year from me plus her boyfriend chipping in. My kids arent seeing the benefit, they didnt get a holiday last year from her (but she managed 2 weeks diving in the red sea with her boyfriend)and they come to me in ragged clothes socks with holes in them and hand me downs so she and the boyfriend are sponging off my child maint payments to support their lifestyle.
It really got to me when they gave my partner the xmas present money from their grandparents to go as contribution to my xmas present as she screws them on pocket money and wouldnt give them anything to help buy me an xmas present.
So I'm minded to go to CSA and ask to be assesed by them then go back to court for the variation. This sounds too easy so what are the pitfalls. Once I have the CSA assesment then waht stops me just giving her that ?
If I can get the reduction I can afford a mortage and home of my own for the boys as well as my partner and her children.
Any help and thoughts on this are much appreciated as everything i read indicates the CSA are monsters but in my case if i use them then they may be my saviours....