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RP paying the NRP to look after the kids

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27 Jan 11 #248155 by James53
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Is it normal for the RP to pay the NRP to look after the kids.
I needed to take a 2 week working holiday so planned to do this at Easter as the kids will be on holiday the problem is they want to stay at home.
I aked the ex if she would look after them but she wants me to pay her tolook after them. Great coming from somebody who has paid damn all for anything in her entire life. A bit of CM now and again would go a stray.
So all you NRP dads know what to do. When your ex asks you to look after the kids demand payment.

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28 Jan 11 #248170 by hawaythelads
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I hope you told her it's your fecking kids you fecking useless xxxx.
James you married a right fecking wrong'un in that one.
All the best
Pete

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28 Jan 11 #248171 by ldg
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Beautifully put, as always Ha'way B)

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28 Jan 11 #248172 by ldg
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It is quite amazing what some ex's say, you just couldn't make it up could you James. I am sorry I don't know the answer but I would cetainly hope you don't have to pay. Some people seem to be on a different planet don't they?

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28 Jan 11 #248183 by Lostboy67
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I think that most NRPs would jump at the chance of extra contact and thank their ex for being given the opportunity. Now possibly the RP could send the children off with some pocket money.

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