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Paying money back to NRP

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17 Feb 11 #252415 by AnnoyedMummy
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I have now found out that my ex has left his job, and is no longer working BUT he hasn't told the CSA that he's left, and is still currently paying me money. This is VERY unlike him!

I've now heard, that he is planning on waiting for a while, and continue paying me, and then telling the CSA that he left on *insert date here* and then I will have to pay back all the money that he's paid me when he wasn't working!

Can he do this? Would I have to pay him back from when he left work, or would it just be from when he tells the CSA?
I'm just a bit worried that he will leave it for a few months, and then I get a letter saying "Mr. *insert name here* is no longer working. Due to this, you owe him £*insert amount here*"

I'm not saying that he should carry on paying me, i'm just worried that I will have to pay back a few hundred pound all at once, which we can't afford!

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17 Feb 11 #252418 by eyes on horizon
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pft.

You arnet liable to pay him anything back.

IF he continues to pay you thats his issue and one that he should be doing anyway!

There is no legal recourse, or CSA rule about overpaying. If there was my ex would owe me thousands!

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17 Feb 11 #252419 by LouCheshire
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Dont be daft...it's up to him to tell em of any changes as and when they happen.
How are you to know?
Stop panicking...he sounds like a right slippery character...why would he put you in this situation?
Lou xx

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17 Feb 11 #252426 by AnnoyedMummy
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He was p*ssed off that he had to pay me at all, and then was even more p*ssed off, that he had to go from paying £5 a week, to £18 a week. He doesn't see why he should have to pay me anything. It took months for them to sort it all out, as he wasn't co-operating with them.
He's stopped buying things for DD now (including birthday/Christmas cards and presents) as he thinks I should be spending his money on presents for her. She's only 2 and a half now, so luckily doesn't understand yet, but will do when shes older.

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17 Feb 11 #252433 by sherbet12
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Both the NRP and the PWC are responsible informing the CSA of any changes , You can be fined in not doing so .

So therefore I would say it should be dated from the day he makes contact with the CSA to tell them , otherwise my argument would be were no longer a couple how the hell do I know if he is working or not when he is still making payments !

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