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What to do with my ex now the CSA are on to her

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12 May 11 #267593 by James53
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Isn't it wonderful. Now that my scheming ex is in deep do do with CSA she comes to me for help.
She wants to talk to me I assume about the fact my life style appeal has landed on her doorstep.
How should I approach this? Clearly it is her problem. I don't see why I should get screwed over in the divorce then save her from a detailed CSA investigation.
Why didn't her money grabbing solicitor alert her to the problems that she was building up for herself.
Why do ex's think that divorce is a one way street. I am the man I get screwed, she is woman she gets off scot free.
She got 33% of the assets for doing absolutely nothing and is now going to ***** about paying 20% of her income to support her kids.
Am I going to enjoy this. 4 years of the divorce from hell is finally going my way.

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12 May 11 #267643 by Lostboy67
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Hi James,
I think I'd sit back and let the CSA get on with it...it is between her and the CSA, that said I don't think I would be doing anything to discourage them. If I recall is this the same person who wanted paying to look after her children during a holiday ?

LB

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