Hi,
I have had a look around on this board and can't find the answer to my questions, would be grateful if anyone can help.
I have been divorced for around a year now, and my ex's solicitor has sent me a
Consent Order. There are no financial assets of such to negotiate over. She got everything (the house was rented) all the furniture etc etc.
However the only financial thing that I guess she wants to nail down is
child maintenance. I am all for a financial break (I believe that's what the consent order is for?) but the area of child maintenance is a bit confusing. I thought child support was within the remit of the CSA, hence I was suprised to see that on the consent order. I currenty pay 20.7% of my monthly net salary (it's one child). I used to pay 22.6% but we agreed to take it down to 20.7%, then down to 18.8% after Christmas this year. Forgive the use of the percentages, but would prefer then to talk about direct figures.
I belive the CSA rate is 15%. She is asking me to agree to 20.7% for the long haul, which I don't feel comfortable with. I would probably agree to 18.8% in the long term.
But, overall I would prefer for the CSA to deal with that aspect. What advantages are there for me or her to have it done in this manner? Obviously she sees the better financial side as a benefit (which isn't for me).
I also read that in the cases of consent orders, the juristiction can fall back to the CSA? But , I also read that this is going to become less likely going forward?
As most people on here who post, I WANT to provide for my child, but things have to be fair and reasonable.
I guess what I am trying to decide (I do want the
Clean Break aspect of the order) is whether to disagree with the order (the amount of child maintenance, or get that aspect removed - which I guess she won't agree) but this is no doubt going to involve solicitor costs from my side (I believe she is on legal aid). She does earn 20k+ though, and I believe she gets tax credits. The letter with the order did also state that althought they recommended her to ask for financial documents etc she didn't. I don't personally see what difference that would make. With her salary, tax credits, and maintenance I am sure she has more then me (and I appreciate she has a child to feed etc).
Any advice/thoughts appreciated.