unbelievable!!

Hi
To some extent I can see why he is a little upset.....its his contact time, and not only will he not see the child he is expected to pay for the privilage of not seeing her....


LB

Hi,

firstly I don''t understand at all why he ''would be upset'' - I haven''t arranged for daughetr to go, I have left the ball completely in hgis court in informing him first etc etc and the ultimate decision would be his, as it is his contact time.

Secondly, my daughter went on a 2 day camp at last year, which I quite happily paid for and let her go... why should it be different just because she is with dad?

This surely would not be the way forward in that the children can do trips, overnights, holidays, school trips etc with mum conatct but not with dad (bearing in mind dad has regular contact)

Personally I feel, let them do what they can (within in reason) to enjoy their life... if this means going on a camp, then so be it


I think the point is missed here in that I haven''t said daughetr can go, and wouldn''t without first running it by dad ( as it''s his contact time) however the fact that dad expect me to pay just becaiuse the payment deadline date is on a date when I happen to have my daughter is unreasonable.

Survive