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Whether to deduct DDs from voluntary CM

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25 Apr 15 #460392 by WYSPECIAL
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If the car belongs to a finance company she wont have a choice as to whether or not to give it up.

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27 Apr 15 #460490 by Child Maintenance Options
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Hello HRabbit

With the other parent making an application to the child maintenance Service you may wish to speak with them directly to discuss your concerns regarding your payments. You will find their details on any letters they have sent you or on Gov.uk at www.gov.uk/child-maintenance

Paying parents are legally responsible only for the amount worked out by the Child Maintenance Service and are not obliged to pay for anything extra. I have included a link on how the Child Maintenance Service calculates child maintenance that you may find helpful, www.gov.uk/how-child-maintenance-is-work...ut-child-maintenance

In regards to you paying the mortgage and the car finance you may wish to seek legal advice as to where you stand with these payments.

For more information on the different ways to set up child maintenance and for a more personalised service, you can visit the Child Maintenance Options website at www.cmoptions.org

The DWP have a sorting out separation web-app that you may find useful. It offers help and support to separating and separated families. The link is: www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Sorting-Out-Separation.html

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William

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27 Apr 15 #460499 by HRabbit
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Thank you William.

I had a long chat with them and they were very helpful in their approach, but also tied by the rules. So, the award is based on a higher earnings from the previous year because that is what HMRC gave them. Another 2 weeks and they would likely to have my much lower last year earnings, but they have to take the information from date of application. Plus they cannot vary it to take into account that I get a quarterly bonus that can vary greatly or not be paid at all and in the current difficult trading for company I work for it is likely to be lower. Therefore having a high pay out spread evenly over 12 months, while my earnings are expected to be even less this coming year is not at all good for me, with a review 12 months away.

The person I spoke to did agree that this should be handled voluntarily between myself and my stbx, I have more than honoured my commitments over the last 12 months, been very co-operative and stated in a solicitors letter that I have no intentions to pay what is legally due moving forward. She had no grounds at all to go to the CMS in my opinion.

They are going to phone my stbx to suggest that this is handled voluntarily so that my payments are based on last years earnings and go up with my salary each quarter relative to the bonus I am paid. However, as the reason for her claim was to put me in as much trouble as possible then I do not think that she will agree to that......lets see!

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27 Apr 15 #460500 by HRabbit
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to correct myself having re-read.....I meant to say, ''I have no intentions to not pay anything that is legally due''.....an important error in the context of my post:)

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27 Apr 15 #460507 by maddogtps
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As I understand it the cms are trying to get out of the business. They want as many people as possible doing things voluntarily. You may have a tough 12 months but it should all even out in the end - though that might be poor consolation now :-(.

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