help with wording for unreasonable hehaviour pleas

i am having to do a diy divorce and would like some help on the wording for filling in the grounds for unreasonable behaviour

my scenario is this

my husband left on 1st sept 2010 i had to pay him to leave and he took a computer and tv with him. he had to leave as he was addicted to an online game lost his job because of it was horrendous to live with if he couldnt play his game - shouting and ranting at me and our kids who are now 15 and 14. he put us under immence financial strain thru not working plus he used to take money out of the joint account to buy online gold for his game. he has now not worked for over 2 and half years.

recently since june 17th i have had to have a harassment warning issued against him because of threats hes been making towards me. i am now with womens aid as well so i would like some help with the wording so i can get it right and finally get a divorce from him

thanks in advance
laura

is he going to agree to the divorce? if definitely yes then it might be less painful to do it on 2 years separation. if he is likely to be a pain in the posteria or you feel strongly enough then seek legal advice - be clear that it is just the wording on the grounds that you require, do you get legal aid? its bread and butter stuff for solicitors so shouldnt take long or cost much if your careful. there might be more help via womens aid? hope it helps and good luck

he says he is going to agree to it but what he says and what he does are 2 different things.

the children no longer speak to him at all now due to his recent behaviour i dont want to wait another year as i cant cope with some of the stuff and emotional abuse he has started doing recently

i cant get legal aid as i work

thanks for taking the time to answer my q