Self representing

I have been separated for three years, live seperatly from my ex and ran the course of mediation to no avail. I then ran out of funds for solicitor for divorce & im not entitled to any legal aid. My ex is very unreasonable and his behaviours are very risky. I therefore sit waiting for this to impact on my future so I''ve decided I will try to self represent myself at court to settle the finances & wondered if anyone has been through this themselves & can share any advice please. Also, has anyone used the fixed rate solicitors for divorce that''s advertised on wikivorce page & if so, was this a good service? My case is very complex as I''m sure most cases are but I feel overwhelmed with how I''m best to go about divorcing and settling in court without it costing me a lot of money which I simply don''t have. Any feedback would be greatfully received & thanks in advance.

Hello Shiner,

It is always best to try and take the divorce and finances one small step at a time as if you try and do everything together it will be overwhelming. Start with the divorce petition if you have not already done this part. You have two options. You can either rely on 2 years separation with your ex''s consent or his unreasonable behaviour. If you need help with your petition or acknowledgement or forms to apply for Decree Nisi there is always someone here who can point you in the right direction. Once you are in receipt of your decree nisi then turn your attention to the finances by filing a Form A with the Court. They will send you standard Directions and again once you are in receipt of those there will certainly be someone here who can help you. I know you say that you cannot afford a solicitor and are not eligible for legal aid but some solicitors will be willing to receive their costs at the conclusion of the divorce once you have received your settlement as long as you can pay for disbursements if that would assist you.

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Hi Shiner, I''m presently using Wikivorce fixed price and so far,D Nisi stage,am happy with the service.However, I think they will only deal with straight forward divorces and financial settlements ie divorcing parties in agreement so it may not be right for you.You could enquire to see if they will accept your case.