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01 Mar 12 #315498 by louie33
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Hi wiks experiencing unreasonable behavior from ex husband completing Ancillary Relief with out a solicitor self reping.were do I stand in terms of communicating to ex about his behaviour can I write to his suitably to his solicitor and were do i stand.becoming increasingly concern.

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01 Mar 12 #315501 by dukey
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Louie you can yes, you can ask he only corresponds via his solicitor, the problem is this will cost him more, what is he doing or saying to upset you?.

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01 Mar 12 #315514 by louie33
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Hi their

Swearing aggressively on the phone and saying he will take the kids next to live with him prem. Having a flexable arrangement in place due to his work patterns which I am with and sees the children as the tome arises.Anger I believe is due to sorting out the finances after the divorce his choice sadly.
Making threats to explain to our children why we divorce
The children are fed up and drained as it is.

Worried how he is going to react next one day the locks maybe change on the front door or whatever next - never new their was this side to him.

Any ideas appreciated were to go from hete

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01 Mar 12 #315519 by dukey
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I take it you no longer live together, if that is the case then yes by all means contact his solicitor and ask all correspondence be made through his solicitor.

If you do live together its more difficult but there are provisions in law to protect a person from abuse, an occupation order for example means the abuser would need to leave the marital home and not return without agreement or further order of court.

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