Hi ,
We are thinking of separating but by husband is wanting to stay together miserable rather than face "financial ruin" as he puts it.
We have several properties and i wonder what you guys think would be a fair way of splitting everything up that is fair (as far as you can!)
We would, in an ideal world, want to keep the properties we already own, apart from me , the wife, having the
FMH.
I would also want a bigger percentage of the assets as i would have the kids the majority of the time and he earns 4 times more than me. I gave up a career that could have seen me earning more than twice what i currently earn and i could not go back to it given the time out, and not with young children. I dont know what is "standard" or what would be fair percentage wise, 60/40 or 70/30? He is able to earn much more than me obviously, unencumbered by childcare issues.
So, here is the info i think is required.
Paul is 50 and Eliza is 44. Married for 12 years.
Two kids, boy of 12 and girl of 5
Paul has three other kids, two of which he pays CMS for (approx. £500 a month) and the other, voluntary contributions for Uni.These kids will all be over 18 in 4 years time.
Income: Paul , Full time employed, around £80K and Eliza, part time self employed, around £20k
Eliza, when separated, probably entitled to around £370 a month child tax credit
FMH – worth around £500k, mortgage of £340k
Owned by tenants in common, 4 bed house, Eliza wanting to stay here with kids
Other properties:
Belonging to Paul
Prop 1 – Worth £176k, Mortgage of £124k , rented out
Prop 2 – Worth £122k, Mortgage of £77k, rented out
Prop 3 – Worth £324k, Mortgage of £234k (3 bed, suitable for Paul and kids, currently rented out, not making a great profit currently)
Belonging to Eliza
Prop 4 – Worth £190k, mortgage of £142k , currently rented out
Pensions – Paul – £116k and £25k
Pension – Eliza – £11k
Two cars and motorbike in Pauls name worth around £12 in total
Outstanding debts
Paul has credit card debt of around £30k. He would (mostly correctly) argue it is joint debt for cars, holidays etc. (Money has been kept separate in marriage)
Cash – Paul has around £6-10k , varying at any time
Eliza – looks after and is the only person to have saved £10k in kids accounts, plus has also around £10k
What do you guys think might be a fair solution please?