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Hi everyone, my name is adam, i am currently going through a seperation, due to my wife and friend/neighbour getting way to friendly, between the 2 families involved are 4 children (2 each) the other family have also seperated, i am at my wits end, i am having to leave my children, dogs and home, sorry to bleat on.

Hi adam

Sorry to hear about what has happened. It is very tough when you first find these things out and you go through all sorts of emotions so don't feel you are 'bleating on'. The best way to move forward is to get all the hurt and negative feeling out.

Just a question, why are you having to leave? Is it the age of the children, and your work that makes it impossible for you to stay in the home and care for them? My children are 15 and 12 and I told my wife I would not leave the house after she decided to 'be me' and start a relationship with the guy she had her affair with.

It doesn't always have to be the dad that moves out when the mum has done the dirty!

All the best

S

Hallo Adam and welcome

I am so sorry you are going through this hell, but you will survive and you have come to the right place for support. Bleat away!

Welcome to Wiki! Sending you a big hug and best wishes.
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Welcome Adam,

Don't worry at all about bleating on, that's what this site is for. You are amongst friends here and we all lend an ear when it's required.

It's not a nice thing to have to go through and you are right, there are times when you will feel at the end of you tether. Hang on to things though, you will make it through.

IGB made a good point, why are YOU leaving?

Take Care