Hi!

I am new here, but I am glad I found someone who might understand what I have been going through.
Thanks much for listening,
Cindy

snowtigercindy wrote:

I am new here, but I am glad I found someone who might understand what I have been going through.
Thanks much for listening,
Cindy

I was married for 31 years. In Jan. 2007 my husband took off on me without saying anything. No one knew where he was not even his family. I was sooooooo worried! I called the police and tried to report him missing but they said he has to be missing for 72 hours before you can report it. Two days later he called me and stated that he went on a vacation and would be back in 10 days. My husband NEVER does anything on his own. I always had to go with him where ever he went. I got worried so I started looking at my computer. He was addicted to the computer, spent alot of time on it. I found out that he was with another woman from England that he met on pogo games site. She was also married at the time she flew here to Orlando, Florida to be with him for 10 days. I was furious! When he got back he said that I was the problem, I did not give him enough attention and so on. I filed for a divorce. During this time he wanted to make our marriage work. He said he would not communicate with her any more. Lies all lies I should have never listened to him. I caught him emailing her through pogo, she changed her screen name so I could not know he was talking to her. So I continued with the divorce. The next thing I know he flies to England to be with her and stayed there for 2 months. During this time he called me and said he made the biggest mistake of his life and wants me to cancel the divorce. I Would not cancel the divorce, it finally went through in Jan. 09. Now he is back home and is doing it all over again, telling me he loves me and wants what we had back, but he is still not willing to break it off with this chick. Who by the way is only 29 and he is 52. What is wrong with him? And what is wrong with her?
Please help me understand
Why do I still love him?
Cindy

Hi snowtigercindy

Welcome to Wiki, glad you found your way here, sorry it is for a sad reason. The people on Wiki are lovely, supportive and a lot are going through or have gone through similar to what you are going through.

Have a good wander through the Wiki web site and read some stuff others have posted in the forums, there are lots of resources too like the library. Chat is a nice place to be for instant support and to help you feel less alone in what you are going through.

You can just pop in and say Hi, and join in only if you are comfortable to do so, or just observe for a bit. Everyone is very friendly in chat you will see that we have come to know each other and do a good job supporting each other and lifting each others spirits if need be.

Take care
79fw

snowtigercindy

you added while I was typing so here is what we call a Wiki-hug it is virtual >>>> ((((((((snowtigercindy))))))))

You are not alone, others on here have gone through just what you are going through, stay around and in days to come you will see that.

Why do they do it?...................

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