21 and looking for a divorce

Hi I'm Dee. I'm a mother to a wonderful little girl named CiCi. I hate to say it but my daughter is the only reason I got married. Her father and I were 18 when we started dating when I was 19 I got pregnant. My parents did the whole "do you love her" thing to him and he said yea. Then my mom asked if he'd marry me and he said yea. I feel like they decided it without. Technically they did. Any time I would tell him I didn't want to get married just because I was pregnant. He would say thats not why we were doing it. It was why I was doing it tho and I felt like he was doing it to prove a point that he would. I feel like we are more friends than anything and I love him to death but I'm not in love with him at all. I knew I wasn't on the day I said "I do". I was just to scared to speak up and I let myself get taken advantage of and married off by the people closest to me. All I want is to live happily alone with my daughter. Unfortunately, I dug myself a hole and didn't fight while everyone buried me.

alias,

Welcome to wiki. It is a great place to get support - but unfortunately we can't help you much with anything legal as we are a UK site. But don't let that put you off .. we have all been where you are - it feels the same no matter what side of the pond you are. Do pop into chat sometime and meet a few peeps "face to face".

Hadenoughnow

Welcome to wikivorce alias

I'm sorry your circumstances brought you here but, as hadenoughnow said, it's a good place to be when you need support.

I agree - pop into chat and get to know some peeps. I divorced 22 years ago, with 2 babies, aged 27. Though tough alias, I can honestly say it was the making of me.

Tough situations call for tough decisions and, as long as you are following your own path, with a clear head, you can't really go too far wrong...

Shezi