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30 Mar 09 #103317 by NellNoRegrets
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Hallo and welcome

Yes, this is a fantastically friendly forum.

Right. You are disatisfied and hurt and you want things to get better but not sure how.

You need to talk to your husband. Maybe he is depressed (not always easy to tell, men are much less likely to talk about this sort of thing) or he may have impotence issues. Or he may not care about you at all.

But you need to find out what is happening from his perspective. Maybe counselling would help you both, or might help you on your own to work through how you feel.

IF you decide to end your marriage I can tell you that yes it is scary and lonely on your own. But not as lonely as being in the same room as someone you can't talk to.

And after a bit you get to feel very proud of yourself for managing on your own.

Whatever you do, people are here to help. Pop into chat to meet some of us, we are a friendly crowd.

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