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JoannaA
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04 Apr 09 #104862 by JoannaA

Reply from JoannaA

you seem an amazing man fighting to keep your family in tact.

my ex husband is still vile and vicious to me, was throughout our marriage and appears will be until the day i die.

keep the fight up for your wife and children, whether she has met another man or not, no man will compensate for a loving father not being 24/7 at his childrens's side

TommyK
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07 Apr 09 #105664 by TommyK

Reply from TommyK

Dadx4 - I am in a similar spot. 3 kids 12 years. But she has a new man. We are both still in the house trying to keep things normal for the kids. It is surreal.

I tell myself "give her space", but break down and send her IM's and marshall once again all my arguments, hoping to find the magic 10 words.

There isn't. All I have done is make her more obstinate. If it fixes, it will not be because of anything I say.

I just take, knowing it is best for my kids to have me in the house.

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