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12 Apr 09 #106921 by jenpen
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Hi all

Another one here who has had a nice surprise over Easter and I dont mean a large easter egg...my husband asked me for a divorce on Friday night.

After 7 years of marriage he has decided we are too different to be married anymore and he is leaving on Tuesday.

I have 2 small children and am wondering what on earth I have done to deserve it!

jen
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12 Apr 09 #106923 by Dadx4
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Jen I am right there with you. My wife of 10 yrs said she'd had enough about 3 weeks ago. She wants a separation, but I said no and we're at a stalemate. Neither of us will leave our 4 kids right now. But it is hell because we're both in the house, but she has completely shut me out. She's onthe phone with her best friend constantly, but all I get is the cursory info about the kids' daily schedule. I do not want to give up, but she is making it clear she does not love me and will not try. All I can say is don't blame yourself.

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12 Apr 09 #106931 by Shezi
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Welcome to wikivorce both of you:)

You're both in very early stages so I'll leave you to settle in. Give us a shout if there is anything you need? There's a cosy chatroom if you want some company and real-time chat

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12 Apr 09 #106946 by startingagain09
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welcome jenpen,

sorry you have found yourself here. you will find lots of support and friendly wikipeep here. feel free to vent, ask questions, anything.

best wishes.

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