Thinking of getting divorce

Hello my name is Lynda.

I very much want to get away from my husband.

He bullys me and threatens violence and drinks every night.

I am 55 and have been with him for 27 years.

I do not work and have no money of my own.

No family to turn to, I dont know what to do.

Feeling very scared,alone and frightened of my future.

Hi Lynda

You are in a safe place here, we will do our best to support, help and advise you. You are not alone.

No one should have to live with the threat of violence - have you contacted a Women's Aid centre? they will be able to help you practically and with emotioanl support.

www.womensaid.org.uk/

There are lots of us here who understand your situation because we have been there too. Im sure others will reply with far better advice than I have given.

Why not pop into the chatroom to meet some of our members? You will be made very welcome, and I know that it helps combat the feeling of being alone.

Take Care

Ruby

Hi Lynda,

Poor you. Has your husband ever hit you? If he has then it is understandable that you feel scared and perhaps you should already be outta there.

Why is your husband so angry? Have you wanted to go out to work and haven't been allowed to by him?

I wish you all the luck in the world and please remember, you are never completely alone. The link provided by rubytuesday is a good start, get in touch with them as you will find them to be sympathetic and supportive.

All the best,
Jerry.

Hi Lynda

RubyTuesday's advice re womens aid is spot on. They really can help you. And violence isn't just about being hit. Emotional abuse is as if not more damaging to you - they recognise all of this, give them a ring.

Be strong x