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24 Apr 09 #110446 by mellowme
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well im new dont know what im doing but been separated for 3years he comes and goes not knowing if he wants a divorce. he applied for divorce 3yrs ago and before it was final changed his mind. then this year a day before my birthday decided it wasnt gonna work for him, he wanted a break, i said take a long one 3years is enough of a break. so now i have highs and low days, we tried friend thing for sake of kids (2boys)but he still wanted benefits of having a wife with friends. finally put my foot down and decided i need to be at peace with me, without him.

thats the short of it. thanks for listening that felt good.

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24 Apr 09 #110453 by Kimmi
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((mellowme))

Well done for finding wiki and thousands of new friends willing to help you through this mess.

We all deserve a little peace in our lives and I sincerely hope you get some soon.

Take care of yourself and keep posting.

Kimmi
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24 Apr 09 #110473 by dissapointed dad
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mellowme wrote:

......and decided i need to be at peace with me, without him.
thats the short of it. thanks for listening that felt good.


mellow

how beautifully put - thanks!

You've come to the right place - we're all here to support you!!

keep posting

thanks

dd

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