Still might not happen

Hi im new to all this still hoping my divorce wont happen and he will come to his senses:) However havent seen him since Thursday dont know where he is but as always i am at home just wish sometimes i could be more like him, we have responsibilities though which at present i am coping with wondering if i shouldnt just go away somewhere as well but too responsible for that.

funny you said that about responsilbities. said the same thing to my stbx. we could all run off into the sunset to find ourselves, but the ones left holding the baby literally dont have the option. selfish selfish selfish!!! we are better off without them.

Its strange now though him having an affair has changed my view of the world. My daughter said the other day how she now thinks all men carrying a bunch of flowers is having an affair, my friends envied us thought we had everything.I look at couples and think you have no idea whats going on with him. Im sure women have affairs too shame on anyone who does this hurtfull thing.Thanx for listening am feeling very angry right now x

Hi Hun,

Keep you chin up and think about what is important, the children. I am in the same boat, pending an inevitable divorce after having suffered years or mental, physical and financial abuse. Don't know how I am gonna get through it but I have to think of the kids hun. Try not to blame yourself in any way, remember he is the problem and not you. xx