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05 May 09 #113600 by Tenere
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:( Where do I start?
So much to say.
I will start with a big Hello.:)
Will be posting soon as I need lots of help.
Wife has dropped a bombshell on me asking for a separation.
I wish it was all that easy but its not.
Unable to concentrate on anything much at the moment.
But looks like I have hopefully found the right place to come to find help.

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05 May 09 #113601 by flick5
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And we say a big 'WELCOME'!

You're in a dark place at the moment and you can't see a way out but there will be a way and we are all here to help you.

Keep posting, there's always someone here. Take care.x

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05 May 09 #113608 by forward
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Hi Tenere, me too (wife/bombshell), just a week ago... I have a feeling there's a wealth of help right here for us... don't stop crying yet mate, I hope you have family like me - I'm so lucky there.

x :-|

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05 May 09 #113613 by dissapointed dad
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Tenere & Foreward

Guys I was where you are in August last year - it's all a complete shock, but 1 thing I can tell you, though it may not seem so to you at the moment, ..... it does get better

Start posting ( I know it seems odd to put your feelings/rants/story down) but do it, and I can assure you you'll start feeling better/start making sense of it/start getting an idea and help on how to cope/go forward...

I feel for you both - we're all here to help and share what we can with you

take care

dd

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