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15 May 09 #116457 by mickwilz
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Hi young again,
As you say, perhaps because it was early morning, I failed to convey my thoughts more explicitly, (not my best posting ) and apologies If you are upset with me. The first moron I referred to, is the selfish fools in our lives that cause us so much heartache, for the other moron's, read men, wrong terminology, as you say it was very late. " I only hope you appreciate him ". It's been my unfortunate experience that many women find loving and loyal men boring and a turn off and end up heading for the hills with a more exciting alternative, (the thrill of never knowing whether or not you have got him) I suppose. However that said. please accept my regrets if I have in any way offended you.
As always, best wishes. Mickwilz.

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15 May 09 #116591 by Shezi
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I think most women here would find a loving and loyal man attractive mickwilz as, I'm sure, would most men ;)

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15 May 09 #116618 by Young again
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Hi mickwilz,

Thanks for replying. Don't worry, I am not upset, I simply didn't understand what you were getting at.

I would say anyone can be a moron, some temporarily and a few making it a full-time occupation, but it isn't gender exclusive.

I note what you say about instances of loving and loyal partners being seen as boring, or unfulfilling. It is a fact that excitement in a relationship dies down as it is replaced by the routine of life.

I marvel that some people can view comfort and security in a relationship as boring. To my mind these things are a blessing to be appreciated and cherished. The last thing they are is dull!

Thanks again,

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15 May 09 #116622 by mumof5
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hi,
i finally split with my stbx 22 months ago and a month after that my elder daughter took me and my younger daughter on holiday and i met someone
what im trying to say is we never know when or where we will meet someone. i am very happy with him and he is loyal and loving the complete opposite of my stbx but you know what thats what i want.
my dd and i have moved in with him and {so far] its going great
my advice for what its worth is it will come, take care
n3w

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