end of relationship due to debt & bankruptcy

Hi all,

dont know really where to start so i will go straight in and say my 17 year long relationship is coming to an end mainly due to debt which has now caused my bankruptcy.Its taken me 5 years to come to that decision which i made in dec 2008 after my partner wanted to call it a day due to a toal breakdown of communication between us mainly me suffering from depression in silence due to the over whelming amount of debt i was carring lots of infrequent periods out of work which took me to that point.Its emotionaly draining for me to soon be losing our house where we have lived the last 13yrs but are dear little cat got run over by a car on saturday and that to be honest is the last straw for me, i loved her so very much and was always thinking of ways how i could say goodbye to her when i have to leave our home. sorry to bable on so much just wanted to share my story as i feel completely alone.

regards to everyone on this forum

toto1978

Hallo Toto

you aren't alone here, plenty of people have experienced what you are going through.

Sorry to hear about your cat, that's another blow you could have done without.

Were you married or co-habiting?

hi,

many thanks for your reply, no we live together , weve been together 16years its very sad and i feel so depressed about the whole situation our dear little cat dying in circumstances like that was just so tragic i had got really attached to her.

regrads

toto1978