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I have been married for 5 years now and have 2 beautiful children. My wife had previously wanted to leave me prior to my second child being born but stayed because of my son. Recently she has now said she is really unhappy and does not love me anymore. She wants to be single again according to her. I love my wife and family and I am having a very difficult time coping. I am diabetic and the last time this happened I was in intensive care for 10 days. I tend to stress. I want my wife to be happy but I am confused how I have gotten to this point. She says mean things like I should have left you a long time ago and I don't know if I ever loved you. We also just bought a new house 5 months ago but even she says she had feelings of leaving me then too. I am extremely sad about being alone in life but I need to be happy too. We have to stay together right now because of bills and we can't afford to move on yet. Any advise because I am truly lost at this point?

Hi drew i am so sorry to hear what you are going through i am in a similar situation....my husband left me and our three year old daughter saying he was confused and did not know what he wanted anymore!...(caught him few weeks later in bed with his co worker) trust me drew you are better of without your wife she will do this too you all the time and i wouldd not be surprised if she too has another man

you have to keep strong fro you and your kids....its hard i know and i can eat sleep or function and you probably are the same... you have to get yourself to a lawyer or citizens advice see what you need financilaly

call you wifes bluff and tell her to leave the house and you will take care of the kids see if this makes het re think

keep me posted mdoll:

She has already told me if she leaves she is taking the kids. I am having a really tough time with things. I still love her and don't know how to stop. My counselor says I am co-dependent. I really am confused and have no idea what to do. I don't want to be alone in life but don't want to be unhappy either.