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Bry
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25 May 09 #118932 by Bry

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Hi to Everyone

I am +50 male.My wife left our house last December.We have been separated since then and she admitted that there is someone else.I do want her back and told her to come back to the house while I go and live in a flat.She agreed but told me that it is only temporary until we sold the house. do you think it is a good idea for me to move out?

Any advice would be very helpful

happe
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27 May 09 #119347 by happe

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Are there any children living with either one of you? If not stay where you are. She chose to leave, she chose to cheat on you. Why make things easy for her by giving her your home back. She made her choices let her live with them.

Macey7
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27 May 09 #119376 by Macey7

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Hi Bry, its how you feel about the situation. Would you want to move back in with your wife, only you can decide that. We could give you advice but the onus lies with you.

Hellie

Marshy_
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27 May 09 #119377 by Marshy_

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I would stay. If you move out there is no incentive for her to sell. She may just change her mind and move her new lover in. You will have a devils own job selling then. Stay put mate. C.

Bry
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27 May 09 #119382 by Bry

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No my children are both at university but both will be be back for the summer break.
By the way thank you very much all of you for your replies.

NellNoRegrets
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27 May 09 #119392 by NellNoRegrets

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Hallo Bry and welcome to the site we didn't want to join!

I would advise you to stay put while you sort out what YOU want to do.

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