Hello

Hi

In process of seperation; my soulmate no longer loves me

3 lovely kids who I just want to be a proper dad too.

The system is so wrong. Finding out the facts today have really peed me off.

Coasdad

Firstly, sorry that you find yourself here, but that said Wikivorce is a fantastic support site and has helped me tremendously.

Yes, it does seem unfair (and it is), but the only way that I can deal with the injustice of it all is to concentrate on my children, and reinforce inside myself that they are the most important people in my life.

I too got the 'I love you, but am not in love with you' line in August last year. We are nearly at DA stage, and there is light at the end of the tunnel - I'm far happier now, though it kills me not to see my children everyday (I have them every fortnight for the weekend)

Keep posting here - I promise you that you'll get a lot of help here

take care

dd