hi , newbie here sepp from husband i month ago

my husband was shocked and could not accept my descision,despite the fact id been trying to leave for years but got iether persuaded or oh there ..convieniently made pregnant ,besides if you get kicked enough you dont get up ... and im talking mental not physical here .i was token bird in guilded cage / stepford wife i bankrolled and saved the buisness and had another half who never slept in the marital bed and flirted with anything that moved ...mainly younger models ..he was arrested for indecent assault 4 years ago against 2 minors 13/ 15 year olds but charges were never brought .. it was horrific and things have never been the same , i recently found tonnes of porn on his computer and could not take things anymore , he moved to the other buiness... farm and now thiks he can sell this ... he still belives hes done nothing wrong ..:

Hi rainbowfield,

What is yout q? Are you ok?

Elle x

hi , well weve all been to soliciters , am i right in thinking everything has to be valued before things can procceed?the pot is very large i smallholding , in scotland and a large farm down south plus various loans i have given the buiness , its all in hubies name apart from 5% which is in his fathers .. hubby wanted to exclude midland farm, and sel here from under me ... funnily enough i have given my soliciter a heap of paperwork to prove that thefarm down south was not a gift from his parents , as they were forced to hand it over to avoid bancupcy and my husband and i had to sell another property to bail and has upped his offer and wants to settle .. am i selling myself short ... complicated

Rainbowfield,

If you post the info requested in the following link peeps will be able to give you input regards possible outcomes.

www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Forum/...G-IN-THIS-FORUM.html

Elle x