She has gone and I am so sad

New here... wife left yesterday with girls.. Game me a letter saying that she was off and that kids would contact me in a week.
She is a good person and I know she had to do it this way or else I beg her to stay... but I tried so hard to make it OK and for 5 months .. no arguements just kindness and love but too late..

So I am new here and not sure of what is here...

One thing maybe someone can tell?

She will live in a house and I will keep our house for 6 months and then see how we are... we will pay all the bills for each house... hers rented mine the orignal... that OK?
Kids will spend some time at one and some time at other... they will work it out.

your plan sounds all well and good, but i would be very surprised if she returned, she has taken the biggest step leaving and you have to understand that she may not return...

U must feel so low at the moment, this is the hardest thing ever but you will find all the support and advice you need on here.

I came on when my husband left me and thought my world had ended, then i stopped comin on when i thought I was doing ok, now having another low point eight months on so come back for more advice. sometime just good to get a kick up the a*** and make you look at the good again.

Good luck, the chats are good to if u need to talk when feeling alone.

Best of Luck

Cat

Spider

sorry about your situation, but you've found the right place for advice.

Again, I apologise if what I say isn't what you want to hear, but I have to agree with Kola - she's made the hardest decision already - to move out - and I also feel that she won't come back.

I asked my ex to tell me in plain simple words what she wanted, what she meant when she said 'I love you, but I'm not in love with you.....' - I'm not a mind reader - so she said 'I want a divorce' - that was 9 months ago - I'm a far better place now, but my son (7 today!!) is taking it quite badly......

take care and keep on posting - this site helped me in my darkest days, and we're all here to help you

dd