Hello all

I am already divorced and have been for many years.

Best thing I ever did. Instead of being one half of something I was the whole and I have made of my life what I wanted, circumstances allowing. Life has been bumpy but if it had been smooth what would have been the point?

The biggest thing I have learnt from being married and divorcing is that you cannot expect another person to complete you nor can you blame another for your own misery or failings.

I do think sometimes it is too easy when unhappy to blame something other than the simple fact you are unhappy.

I was told about this site by a friend who has joined so I thought I'd take a look. I may not require any advice on divorce but as a pretty mature divorcee maybe I can offer some in places.

Straight from the hip, plain speaking and maybe not always a desired response but you will always know exactly where you are with me as I don't pussyfoot around.

Life is a joke and that is the first lesson you need to learn if you are going to survive it mentally intact.

Hi

Welcome to wiki

As you say you may not need any advice as your now divorced , but you can help alot of others on this site to just know there is light at the end of a very darkened tunnel.Please feel free to share your experiences.