hi everyone just found wikivorce

We have been through a rough patch for the last 18 months and my wife wants me to go, then 2 weeks ago found out she has breast cancer, she has had op and waiting for the results and looking to see what happens next. We have 3 kids 18,16 and 11. Doctor has said that cause of cancer is strees so blames me. she has blanked me totally regarding what happens next regarding times of treatment so living in limbo. supporting her as best but not sure what happens next.

WHAT???????? let me understand this right??? YOU! caused the breast cancer??????? OMG!!!!!!! I am absolutley gob smacked! maybe we should send you off to the labs so a cure can be found! Take this awful remark on the chin then disgard it!
She is hurting (big time) and if she's had a masectomy she's proberly feeling like she's been rejected and nobody else will want her. Carry on supporting her and your kids, they are the most important, remember what you chose to do will stay with them forever.

Good luck love xxx we're here for you xx

What an awful thing for anyone to say to someone else. You never caused her problems and I hope to god you're not suffering real bad cause of it.

Be supportive, I'll agree with that, my x has been very supported to me, infact he has gone out of his way to help me at times and thats unusual, I know this.

I hope you're looking after yourself.

Heli