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Hi Everyone
29 Jun 09 #127659
by mouseygirl
Topic started by mouseygirl
What a great sight and as requested I going to tell about my situation.
About 4 months ago I found a file on my husbands computer, on it were a number of dating agencies, along with A LOT of porn and local escort agencies. After searching further I discovered he had actually set up accounts with the dating agencies and had been speaking to various women telling them that he was a single man.
I confronted him about it and he blamed ME!! He told me that he didn't think things were the same between us - we've been together for 24 years - he said he was suspicious that I was going to leave him and he thought he'd "better find someone else, just in case"
So, we are going through divorce at the mo, but we are still living under the same roof until the house is sold, tough times. He has found himself a Russian girl, half his age and he has been to Russia to spend a week with her and I believe she is currently in this country because I haven't seen him since Friday.
I really don't know how to feel at the moment. Part of me is glad that I will soon be rid of him and I am pretty sure that I'll have the last laugh as I am certain that she is using him to get into this country, but the other part of me is very feeling very lonely and rejected. It's difficult to think that I used to completely trust this man, I thought I knew him better than anyone. How wrong can a person be.
Best wishes.
About 4 months ago I found a file on my husbands computer, on it were a number of dating agencies, along with A LOT of porn and local escort agencies. After searching further I discovered he had actually set up accounts with the dating agencies and had been speaking to various women telling them that he was a single man.
I confronted him about it and he blamed ME!! He told me that he didn't think things were the same between us - we've been together for 24 years - he said he was suspicious that I was going to leave him and he thought he'd "better find someone else, just in case"
So, we are going through divorce at the mo, but we are still living under the same roof until the house is sold, tough times. He has found himself a Russian girl, half his age and he has been to Russia to spend a week with her and I believe she is currently in this country because I haven't seen him since Friday.
I really don't know how to feel at the moment. Part of me is glad that I will soon be rid of him and I am pretty sure that I'll have the last laugh as I am certain that she is using him to get into this country, but the other part of me is very feeling very lonely and rejected. It's difficult to think that I used to completely trust this man, I thought I knew him better than anyone. How wrong can a person be.
Best wishes.
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