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05 Jul 09 #128837 by loramy
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Hello all Im new to this site. Have this week applied for divorce. grounds - my Husbands drinking and nasty behaviour to me and to our beautiful 15 year old daughter.

I told him to leave - its just been one time too many. We just recently passed our 25th wedding anniversary.

I have felt so bloody angry but i am not expressing it. Just saying things under my breath all the time. I have kept a very clinical response to my ex's rantings.
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He has calmed down a bit now and took Amy for a drive last night. He was stuttering and looked so pathetic. I just felt so sad. I took dog for walk and just sobbed all the way. It felt so painful, but I know it is the right decision.

Daughter been very stressed by it all and missed school for a week as she was really ill. She is still catching up on exams now.

I know I've just got to keep my head down and keep pushing for the final outcome. Thankfully he has gone away to his sisters in Devon for a week so I can relax in the house. Havent been able to as scared of him turning up all the time.

Think this is a great site. Hope to get to know some of you over the forthcoming weeks.

I need to be able to talk to somebody who can understand what I am going thru. I hope that I can be of some help too.

Lots of love to all x
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05 Jul 09 #128866 by NellNoRegrets
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Hallo loramy and welcome to wikivorce

you will find good information in the library pages and guides on the site, great advice on the forums and friendly and supportive people in the chat rooms.

I look forward to seeing you there.

we also have get togethers - check the events page.

Love

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06 Jul 09 #128979 by loramy
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Thank you I look forward to talking to you more
Best wishes
Lorraine

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