Divorcing, second time

Hi All

Well, I never thought that I would find myself in this position....again. 43 years old, and now two failed marriages, gutted beyond belief. The feeling of failure, total dispair maybe even more raw as I remember the feelings from the first time.

I dont want to come on to the forums as some kind of basket case though, I came through once before and I will again. I am the father of two beautiful boys (nearly men now) from the first marriage, with no children from the second train wreck.

I see from our great friend google that 50% of marriages end in divorce, with 60% of second times ending the same way. I would say never again, but so many say that so it's a bit cliche.

I hope that I can meet some new friends on here, as many of you know divorce separates you from the life that you had before, and I have no family to speak of that I can use as a support network.

Nice to meet you all

Soulfollower

Hi


Welcome to wiki

Sorry to see your going through this painful mess once again.There are a few on wiki in your situation where they have been married 2 or 3 times .


You will make so many friends here you'll never feel alone weather you wanna pop into chat to talk , blog how you feel or use the forum for advice .You have found a great place.

Hi there

I'm a second timer to go through this opposite to you no children from the first and a wonderful boy and girl from the second.

I don't intend to divorce more than once as would never ever marry again.

However, you are welcome to Wikivorce

Look at the threads and blogs and pop into chat to talk to peeps who are very friendly and supportive.

Check out the events page, meetings are arranged all over.

Nell