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My names michelle and i have 2 boys age 15 and 18. I have been married for 6 years (2nd marriage) and its now gone sour. My 2 boys are really caught up in this as my husband does not speak to my boys. He doesnt give an inch and doesnt try to understand if its not to his liking he will ignore you, This is the situation i am in again, The final blow for me was when he texted me that me and my boys are like leeches!
In a nutshell when i met my second husband i had quiet a lot of money and helped to buy a property and pay of my current husbands debts. we than set up a business together which has been suscessful for 5 years. now we the business is struggling due to the current climate. we do have 3 staff memebers and my husband is also my boss even though i am a shareholder??? this divorce is going to be very hard as its not a simple separation as my solictor has told me.
I got out of my first marraige due to him being a moody person whom would often ignore me,my friends and family for no reason. and low and behold my second husband is fast worse!!!! it appears i have been attracted to moody people!wots wrong with me!, I hope that by joining this web site i may be in contact with fellow people going thru this horrible situation.Hope i havent gone on to much.was good to type oit out.

Hi choc123mich123

Welcome to Wiki. How awful to find someone and then it turns out they are worse than the previous, poor you. Had you known your current H for long before you committed to marriage?

You will get good support here at Wiki, it's good to write stuff down and remain anonamous. Wikis' chat room is a good place for getting support and talking to others who are going through various stages of divorce.

How come it's not a simple separation?

Take care
Girly

Hallo Michelle and welcome to Wikivorce

so sorry you are going through the upheaval of divorce again.

My sons are 17 and 15 and I've been separated a year. This site was a lifesaver.

Post your queries on the forums, start a blog and pop into our friendly supportive chatroom.

Nell

Your in the right place Michelle. I'm getting so much from this and I've only really been using it for a day. Sorry it looks like your in for a rough one.

Hi choc,bad enough reading how sad it is for you but when I saw as due to your business, things wont be straightforward, my heart sank. I'm in that situation too. Although, I don't think the separation will be complex, more the division of assets. Hope I'm right on that.
How far has it gone? by that I mean has he been served with a petition etc.
Be careful choc of giving too much detail, such as real name. You need to be safe and able to post your feelings freely. (You can edit your name out, I think with the edit button, which I've now discovered)
Stay strong, your boys will always be yours. I look forward to more of your posts.

Hi there and welcome! I'm sorry you are going through this second time round. Try not to make comparisons between your marriages! I'm sure there are lots of differences too, it's just that the similarities strike us more forcefully. Please keep posting and let us know how you are getting on. Take care, Bon