saying hello

So i say Hello to everyone.

I am nearly 5 months seperated thats all - feels like a million years so much has happened. I left my husband in the end havig spent so many years sharing him with his other family like i was the woman he was having an affair with him and nto actually his wife, i supported him in developing a realtionship with the child he had with the other woman!!!! and then we had our own child and i htought it would change - i have binned the rose tinted glasses after stamping them into small tiny bits lol!!!

Ok i had an affair and never was it in revenge, my husband found out and almost accpeted that (meant he dint have to feel too guilty leaving his wife and son home alone!!!) but things just got worse and i realised i deserved better and certainly my son deserved much better. but when i left OMG he really didnt think i would ever leave him and i would continue to be there for him, and he turned into this total nutter, stalker and general pain in the ass, resulting in the police being involved.

he filed for divorce, and now we are trying to start organiseing contact, and maintainannce and fianacial settlements btu he is being a total ass there too and it is goignto go on and on i feel, and my energy and anger and frustration jst make life sooo much fun! not!

any hoo really sorry babbled on far too much

x

Hallo Zsa

and welcome to Wikivorce.

Those rose=tinted specs aren't much use for seeing things clearly, are they?

Post your queries on the forums, maybe start a blog, check out the events in case you want to have some fun - and pop into the chat room for instant friendly support.

Nell