Thinking and Thriving

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So I am new here, and hoping to also be a part of this forum and to receive and might as well give some advice when i can.

Welcome to wiki

the contributions that you make are going to be well received but you to will receive all the help, advice and support that you need to.

Take care

might try the list thing myself twilight
here goes
reasons to stay with him
1.....er..
2....ummmmmm
3....he...er...
4.......nah....that wasnt so good.
5............we....er...
I`ll start tomorrow!!!!!! :o)

You vowed to stay with him in sickness and in health, for better or for worse. His insecurities and selfishness fall under "worse"... Will he be better off without you? Has he done anything truly wrong? Broken his vows to you in any way?

Leaving because you're tired of him would be breaking your vow. You need to be 100% sure. That takes analysis. To help you decide, read "NLP for Dummies Workbook" or some other interactive interpersonal dialog facilitation method and see if maybe what you need is to communicate better, to explain what you need out of the relationship in a way that motivates your husband to provide that for you instead of the method you're using (or not using) now which is not getting you the results you want.

In the meantime, before you announce it, read up and learn about the costs of divorce and how assets are split. You might find out that setting things up in certain ways will increase the amount you're entitled to. It may pay off to wait a bit to get things sorted (like your own bank accounts and credit cards) before you announce the big decision. It'll also give you time to make sure this is really the right thing to do.

Good luck,