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confussed. lonely.total stressed out

welshdevon
Senior Member

27 Aug 09 #141927 by welshdevon

Reply from welshdevon

you not alone! my hubbie left me 7 weeks ago after 19 years married and 23 years together 2 beautiful children. he dumped me in a nightclub of all places! said he didnt love me but now it transpires he is aving an affair with a 22 year old. he 43!"
but i dont recognise him now! he is cold devious aloof and does not understand the pain and devasation he has caused us. he thinks i should get over it! yea really! i was and still am in love with him! mind you the love is changing it is not as strong as it was. but he is a stranger my husband died in my eyes the night he broke the marriage.
i still cry feel lost alone scared of the future but i have to believe the future will be better eventually!
my kids are my strengh like yours will be for you! friends family this site are what you need people to love you and keep you safe! keep talking! you will have good and bad days but eventually less bad days! my bad days are becoming less i am slowely returning to life in general!
take care x

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