introducing myself

Hi Pinkstar,
Life starts here, always look to the future never to the past. We can't put right what is past but we can shape our future. I wish you well take care.

Penelope666

welcome to a new world! one we would prefer not to be in but it is a very supportive and informative place. we are all in it but at different phases.

my ex left me 8 weeks ago after 23 years together 19 years married and 2 lovely kids! without this site, friends and family i wouldnt be here today!

you can join in or just look at what people are writing about. instantly you know you are not alone and there is hope for a better future.

thankyou so much for all your coments im sure i am gonna spend a lot of time on here,my head is about to explode its so full of thoughts and feelings,i dont no how im gonna feel from 1 day 2 the next,but i am also lucky that i have my family and lotsa friends for support.its been a month since we split and i cry evry singe day for most parts of the day usualy into my ben and jerrys lol

it is a horrible time! i still cry! i have only had one day of not crying in the last 2 months and that was last saturday! but i made up for it since!
just go with your emotions! this is a grieving process that we all/ are going through. but you will become stronger. take small steps, take it slowely! up to 2 weeks ago i couldnt go shopping on my own! confidence gone! but with support and great advice i just returned to work and it great to be back! never thought i would say that lol!
consider going to relate they will see you alone. they are wonderful and all you have to give is a voluntary donation!
keep talking / crying, take all the hugs going! love your self. you will become stronger! xxxx

pinkstar wrote:

...my head is about to explode its so full of thoughts and feelings,i dont no how im gonna feel from 1 day 2 the next...

I know the feeling Pinkstar. Rollercoaster of emotions from one day to the other. Just when you think you're okay then the next you're not. Take your own time through this stormy weather and before you know it you will be stronger for it.

If you get too down then theres always someone on this forum who is glad to help.


GF