here's hoping!

Hi jxr - I am sending you a big hug! Although we have been separated 7 months, I first knew about the the OW a year ago and supspected he had been txting others as well.I too pretended it would all be OK and in my heart probably still do, and sometimes i am just so shocked that he could be with someone else after all we went through. My brother told me this week that the person left behind is the one who is left with the memories, and that I have to go and do stuff that i have not done before..hence I have joined the Rockcoir and help with the riding for the disabled. My kids are 22 and 20, both living independently, so it's the being alone in the house that gets me! I did decorate the bedroom tho so that it more mine and not 'ours'.
I guess we will always love the exes but its also time to love ourselves. Take care