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16 Sep 09 #146855
by SadEyes
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He probably fancied his chances now he knows you're single. You would be suprised what creeps come out the woodwork to ask if you are "lonely"...neighbours 25 years older than you, friends husbands, ......
16 Sep 09 #146859
by enliven
Reply from enliven
SadEyes wrote:
At least that's one problem I won't have to deal with SadEyes. 25 years older than me would be 6 feet under.He probably fancied his chances now he knows you're single. You would be suprised what creeps come out the woodwork to ask if you are "lonely"...neighbours 25 years older than you, friends husbands, ......
16 Sep 09 #146861
by SadEyes
Reply from SadEyes
Ha ha!!! My neighbour is older than my Dad and I'm 38!!! Can't go out in the garden in my shorts in case he has a heart attack
Seriously though - the day after I asked my ex to leave I went to work - told my boss what had happened and then stood in the middle of the office and made a tearful announcement to all my colleagues that me and husband had split up. We are all different I suppose but my workmates are all very close and I must say they were a fantastic support. As for the playground - I only told a couple of mums that were friends and I let the kids tell their friends when they felt ready so it all got around that way.
You may be suprised though just how supportive some are.
Take care
SadEyes (actually a year and a quarter on my eyes are very rarely sad
)
Seriously though - the day after I asked my ex to leave I went to work - told my boss what had happened and then stood in the middle of the office and made a tearful announcement to all my colleagues that me and husband had split up. We are all different I suppose but my workmates are all very close and I must say they were a fantastic support. As for the playground - I only told a couple of mums that were friends and I let the kids tell their friends when they felt ready so it all got around that way.
You may be suprised though just how supportive some are.
Take care
SadEyes (actually a year and a quarter on my eyes are very rarely sad
) 
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