Hello

Hi,

My son plays rugby Nell, its his life, and ours most of the time! I was worried all the upset would affect this, but he has been fine, I suppose it gives him something to focus on and it takes up all of his time.

It gives inspiration to those who are new to the pain, to read of those like yourself who are managing to put their lives back together and move forward.

These "meets" sound great, will have to keep my eye out for one not too far from me.

Take care
Dee

The 18 year point seems to be quite common! I am glad you have been reading the blogs etc, I wish I had known about this in the beginning of my situation. I have been separated for 26 months, divorce pending and finances being sorted out ok, so seeing an end in sight! Come into the chat room too. The best thing is that we really do know how you feel!
My husb was a wonderful husb and father, then got moody and critical and manipulating the kids! Found out he changed when he met the ow, supposedly traing for a charity!!!
He bears no resemblance now to the person I loved. Sad but that life is gone and we have to make the best of whatever life we have, especially for the kids. It's his loss and she is welcome to him!
Good luck!
Jackie H

Its good you have moved on, nice you can look back with fondness. Good you can say OW welcome to him!LOL

I am still trying to heal and get strong, been through so much, its hard sometimes, but I am getting there, Ive been to the bottom so the only way is up!

This place is so great because everyone understands the pain, even if the stories differ, the pain and hurt is the same.

Dee